SS4Brolly
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So, I don't know if anyone will actually recognize me, but I was a pretty active poster when this site first went up, but then I went off to college and everything and lost a majority of my interest in gaming. Either way, I have a small dilemma on my hands and my friends haven't been much help, so I figured I'd try this forum to see what other people thought.
Backstory: I've been with this girl for close to 9 months now. We're in the same major/year at college and have (and will have) a ton of classes together. We get along great and everything. After a few months with her I was pretty sure that this girl wasn't 'the one'. We're both 20 and going into our 3rd year of college, so I feel I shouldn't be worrying about the long term (She's mentioned she doesn't want to get married until she graduates). But we have a good time together, and I do care about her, so I didn't see any reason to break it off.
This summer we're both doing internships on the opposite sides of the country, Boston and San Francisco. We both have flown to see each other and talk a lot with phones/webcams, so its been hard enough just because of that.
Obligatory pics of me and her:
http://photos-d.ak.facebook.com/photos-ak-sctm/v96/77/14/24408084/n24408084_31625251_7216.jpg
But recently, I've caught myself looking at other girls. I keep seeing other girls and saying "Wow, she's really cute." The other day at work there was a cute girl sitting by herself eating lunch (http://profile.ak.facebook.com/profile5/1517/71/n14903245_6975.jpg), so I sat down next to her and flirted a bit, and she gave me her number. I'm not gonna call her or anything, that's not my thing, but still, it just gets me thinking more...
We both go back to school at the end of August, and I feel I at least have to give it some time, but I cant say that I feel confident things will be like when we first dated. And if I do decide it's time to part ways, I don't know the best way to do it. This girl is absolutely crazy about me, and I don't want to do anything that'll hurt her. And then, for thanksgiving break, we have plane tickets to fly to her home in the midwest and spend a week there, and her parents have made all of these plans and bought tickets for stuff. And even further, we're gonna be in like 3 classes together a semester for the next 2 years, so I don't want things to be mega awkward or anything either. That's my biggest fear.
So yeah, I dont know what to do... Anyone got any advice?
Backstory: I've been with this girl for close to 9 months now. We're in the same major/year at college and have (and will have) a ton of classes together. We get along great and everything. After a few months with her I was pretty sure that this girl wasn't 'the one'. We're both 20 and going into our 3rd year of college, so I feel I shouldn't be worrying about the long term (She's mentioned she doesn't want to get married until she graduates). But we have a good time together, and I do care about her, so I didn't see any reason to break it off.
This summer we're both doing internships on the opposite sides of the country, Boston and San Francisco. We both have flown to see each other and talk a lot with phones/webcams, so its been hard enough just because of that.
Obligatory pics of me and her:
http://photos-d.ak.facebook.com/photos-ak-sctm/v96/77/14/24408084/n24408084_31625251_7216.jpg
But recently, I've caught myself looking at other girls. I keep seeing other girls and saying "Wow, she's really cute." The other day at work there was a cute girl sitting by herself eating lunch (http://profile.ak.facebook.com/profile5/1517/71/n14903245_6975.jpg), so I sat down next to her and flirted a bit, and she gave me her number. I'm not gonna call her or anything, that's not my thing, but still, it just gets me thinking more...
We both go back to school at the end of August, and I feel I at least have to give it some time, but I cant say that I feel confident things will be like when we first dated. And if I do decide it's time to part ways, I don't know the best way to do it. This girl is absolutely crazy about me, and I don't want to do anything that'll hurt her. And then, for thanksgiving break, we have plane tickets to fly to her home in the midwest and spend a week there, and her parents have made all of these plans and bought tickets for stuff. And even further, we're gonna be in like 3 classes together a semester for the next 2 years, so I don't want things to be mega awkward or anything either. That's my biggest fear.
So yeah, I dont know what to do... Anyone got any advice?