[quote name='Soodmeg']I agree but there are many more things in our society that hinders these type of actions.
Hell, I wouldnt bet that if you had stepped in...injured or killed that guy yourself his family would not only file charges against you but somehow win. Wasnt there a case where somehow saved the life of one of these "If god wants him to live he will so dont help him or give him meds" type of people. I remember him being in a legal battle for a time after he saved that guys life. His family try to sue him for disobeying god or something.
Everything in America is a huge ass catch 22. You will get burned more times just trying to do the right thing then flat out lying your ass off from the beginning. You got celb's and politicians killing, raping, drug using etc etc and they off with a slap on the wrist and a guy in the hood steals a candy bar and goes to jail for 6 months.
Thats no excuse for not helping. You guys know how much I hate kids and even I couldnt stand there and watch a toddler get stomped by a grown ass man. But to put it bluntly I admit I would be hesitant to help at first because my first thought would be..."How would it look if I a 6'1 black guy is beating the shit out of a man when the cops pull up in this white neighborhood?"
And no matter how stereotypical or prejudices that is sounds I lived through that. I grew up in the ghetto and I along with most of my friends have been arrested for things we didnt commit and for reason no greater than simply being in sight of the police at the time. A perfect example was one of my best friends disappeared for a week and a half without any contact. Just when we were really starting to get worried he appeared the following Wednesday. See he was walking back from the store when 3 cop cars pulled up and arrested him on the spot claiming he matched the description of someone who just robbed a Micky D's and shot someone. He wasnt allowed anything no call, no contact, nothing until they happened to find the guy who really did it a week later. The strange thing is this....my friend is a 6'6 dark skinned black guy. The guy who did it? A 5'8 Rican.
How am I suppose to be confident in helping someone when things like that going on? I might help this kid and wind up in jail the next week.[/quote]
I can appreciate your sentiments soodmeg, and I won't pretend for one minute that racial stereotypes don't exist. I'll also agree that police action can be dictated by prejudice at times.
But I want to go back to my original point about true manliness. I think a real man (and I'm sure our definition on what that exactly is might differ) takes action when action needs to be taken, with no regard to possible personal consequences after the fact. For example:
I decided long ago that if I am ever home in bed, and someone comes into my house, I'm shooting first and asking questions later. Now it's possible that, due to some small legality, I might end up in jail for murder, even though I was defending myself and my family. However, that is a consequence I can accept if it means I protected my wife and daughter from harm. Time in jail vs. a dead family is an easy decision for me to make.
I think our innate manhood should dictate our response in this type of situation. I see this going on along the side of the road, and my immediate response is "Stop it, by any means necessary". If I end up in jail, but I saved an infant's life......is that not an acceptable end?