[quote name='tauruskatt']I clearly ruffled your feathers enough for your grammer to take a nose dive. But out of the sentances that read well enough to make sense...
1. I don't give a flying about High School. No one's grown in HS, that's not what we were talking about. But even in HS, my theory that most 'socially-bi' girls (those who's unformed sexual preferences aren't really bi-sexual, but have some other underlying reason to be bi at the moment) have been abused or neglected by a guy/man in their life holds true. I had 'my shit' pretty 'together' in High School too, so I took the time out to talk to many of them and heard a good measure of horror stories from confused and yet-unformed adolescents. Sorry if you weren't "cute, rich, and popular" in High school, nor was I, but the hell if I care now. :lol:
2. "
Using someone for sex may be inconsiderate," Stop your sentance right there. just stop it and re-read that. think about it. talk amoungst yourselves. whatever. That "may be" shouldn't be there, and I'd change the "inconsiderate" to something more like "an asshole thing to do". Sound better that way? I think so.
3. So, I'm not a girl who's ever played 'mind games' with guys, and you're not an abusive or neglectful guy. congrats. I didn't call you one, me suggesting you point the stereotype at yourself was a hint that you shouldn't be pointing stereotypes at anyone. not just online, but all the time. it's not a great people pleaser to say to someone, "you appear this way, so you must be this way"...especially with your
vast amount of knowlege you've aquired from...a handful of high school and college years? lesse, the years when people are the most f'ed up, good polling place that is.
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Well... you must have your feathers equally ruffled, because you are being quite venmous. Why do you want to drag this out here? Really, I didn't care. I just didn't you trying to pin all the blame on men or incinuating I was just as much a user as someone from your past appears to have been. With reguards to my grammar, I know I have a few run ons, but I type like I speak. I really don't see how my last post was different from any other. Besides, I'm not trying to write the next great american novel, I was responding to a seemingly accusational post written by a seemingly beligerant young girl.
I didn't claim to have a vast repository of knowledge. I mentioned my experiences from highschool and college because they are relavent. A lot of the same issues happen through the ages of 16-24. I didn't say adolecents were the best place to learn about the human psyche, but they are a good place for learning about adolecents.
For your information, I was, and still am, cute.
2. I say "may be" not "maybe". Maybe says uncertain. I said 'it may be inconsiderate" meaning, "it is inconsiderate, but". Example, "I may be an abrasive ass, but you don't need to cop an attitude."
3. You seem to be putting way more words into my mouth that I did yours. Furthermore, I wasn't labelling anyone with sterotypes. All I said was that that information was something I wasn't surprised by. Yes, I gave a list of qualities, but those are qualities I believe she showed evidence of having. Stereotyping would be me saying something like you're a militant, man hating lesbian on the basis that you disagree with me. (That was an example, I'm not saying it). What I said about Lina was based on things she had said and my past experiences. I didn't say it was right, I said it was what I thought.
Uh... I've jumped around too much and my cousin is pestering me, I lost my train of thought.