Myself personally as someone not political and not religious this is how I feel.
You should use the bathroom for the sex you were born as.
I say that because you have to put a line in the sand somewhere. You cant start making exceptions with our society simply because you give people an inch they take it a mile. Sometimes you shouldnt make exceptions because they get exploited, taken out of context, or turned into something bigger than they should be. And like this in this topic, do nothing but raise peoples temperatures and cause a lot of unneeded backlash and hatred. Our society has to be treated like kids sometimes where the parents say "This is how it is, end of story. Its for your own good". Its like lawsuits in a way, soon as a lady burned herself on mcdonalds coffee and won a ton of money we have since seen a staggering rise in just ridiculous lawsuits and people taking advantage of the legal system. Something like this will be a gateway opening for others to start demanding madman like demands and considerations.
Now I dont hate trans people. I understand who they are and so on, its fine and Ill never tell them they are wrong. But lets face the grim meat hook realities of it, you can pull the stem off an apple and spray paint it orange but its still an apple. Bottom line is, if youre born a man then youre a man and vice versa and you should abide by polite society rules as such.
And I dont mean this in a negative way but, trans people are the minority in this country. If trans people made up half the population then that is a different story, but they arent. So the majority arent even considered in this case. When it comes to things like this you cant look at a small amount of people, you have to consider and do whats best for the majority. And ultimately thats my real complaint, everyone in this country has to be catered to and babied and treated special when in the real world laws are created for the majority. When does it stop? How many rules and exceptions are we going to have in order for every single person to be happy?
My problem is this country changes rules and makes decisions for small amounts of people who are really loud on the internet and that is a terrible thing. This country should be about whats good for the most people and whats fair to the majority. Not constantly running around putting a band aid on every tiny cut or scratch.