[quote name='PyroGamer']
I think you misinterpreted me. What SHOULD be and what is practical and useful in a given situation are completely different things.[/quote]
Well then, you need to be very
clear about what you are saying because it is unclear at times whether you are describing your personal utopia or the real world. As we both happen to live in the real world, it's kinda assumed that any discussions we have take place there. Unless you make it clear otherwise.
:lol: Describe this "more" to me. I always like hearing someone attempt to rationalize their stereotypes.
I have stereotypes...about myself. Whatever.
I better go quit that gay chorus I'm in. All that time I was embracing false similarities, holding myself down, accentuating insignificant and contrived differences, and being exclusionary and discriminatory.
Who knew?
I always like hearing someone attempt to define me, tell me who I am, and tell me what is and isn't significant about me.
So you agree that a "straight" group is exclusionary and discriminatory? Good.
Didn't say that. And if you read what I wrote, you would see that I said that it is not
necessarily exclusionary and discriminatory. Yes, even a "straight" group. So, basically, I said the opposite of that. Other than that, we agree.
There is ABSOLUTELY NO DIFFERENCE in validity between a "straight" group and a "gay" group. Both are equally exclusionary and discriminatory. Morally, they are on equal footing.
"Validity" ? "Morally" ?
If this is radical egalitarianism, why does it sound so judgmental?
There's no reason why a "straight" group or a "gay" group
have to be either exclusionary or discriminatory. You have conflated organizing around a principle with excluding all those that do not fit the principle. Because you do the first does not necessitate the second.
We're in the Wii message board now. It's for discussing matters relating to the Wii. It's not really a place to discuss the 360, but it doesn't mean you can't own a 360 or talk about 360 games (if they happen to relate to Wii games somehow).
Furthermore, you can read or post here if you have a Wii, if you don't have a Wii, or if you're curious what it's like to have a Wii. You can read this board, the 360 board, both, or neither.
Is that exclusionary? Discriminatory? In some literal sense, yes. In any meaningful sense, no.
The idea of comparing someone's skin colour to someone enjoying anime is absolutely insulting.
But comparing someone's skin color to their eye color (which
you did) isn't?
Yeah, yeah -- I get it. They're both human characteristics. But you can't have it both ways. Skin color can't
both be insignificant and yet so important that a comparison to something else would be insulting.
Is the idea of comparing someone's eye color to anime insulting?
Baffling, maybe. Or pointless. But insulting?
Blacks do not share anything in common but 2 things: their skin colour, which is of no more significance than their eye colour, and the fact that they are human beings.
A little further on you mention that they also share oppression (...so is it
two things or
three? I'm confused...). But even that is overly simplistic.
This is where you need to be
clear that you're talking about your perfect philosophical world, because the alternative is ridiculous. Your statement bears no resemblance to the actual world we live in.
What you are talking about is the difference between
actual, physical differences and
social construction. Human beings of all kinds have few
actual, physical differences (although there are more than you want to admit) and nearly all of the other criteria upon which they create the ideas of community, identity, culture, etc, are
social construction.
There's only one problem with this. Well, two, but let's start with the big one. Namely,
social constructions exist and are not necessarily bad.
You are missing the forest for the trees. You can appreciate the individuality of every tree in the forest, but to pretend that there's not a forest in front of you is blind and silly. It exists, whether you like it or not, no matter how many perfect theories and concepts and philosophies you can envision.
Is the forest an arbitrary concept? Sure. Where it begins and ends is hard to determine. Where two forests meet, it might be hard to map out the boundaries. And some trees may just not consider themselves part of the forest. But, again, it's there.
Social constructions serve a purpose or they wouldn't exist. Sure, some constructions are put in place from above to oppress. But others evolve by themselves, for their own reasons. To fill a need. To express an idea. To create a solution. Or even just because.
We live in a world where there are tons of social constructions. Some are good, some are bad, some are neither good nor bad. Radical egalitarianism, by doing away with all of them would create equality, but at what cost? If you bulldoze the forest, all the trees are equally dead. That doesn't seem like the best solution.
Individuality is great. But so is community. We shouldn't have to choose.
Which brings us to that other problem. If we strip away social construction and remove all the divisive, exclusionary elements, we have nothing left but the individual.
Where is the individual supposed to find his or her individuality?
With no definitions, no conventions, no culture, no divisions, how is the individual supposed to assemble all the varied components that make her or him an individual? We're going to have to toss out history, shared experience, ethnicity, all those "poorly contrived boxes" -- the very things that people use to define themselves or rebel against.
Throwing away the dictionary would certainly be liberating. But then, when you're looking for words to describe yourself, you might find that your vocabulary sucks.
I am an individual. I belong to many communities. None of which, by the way, are interested in keeping people out. (Well, the gay ones are. Out of the closet. I'll be here all week.)
I am a multitude, a complex and overlapping Venn diagram, a complex chain of molecules. Rather than seeing division everywhere I look, I see syncretism. Where you see chains, I see opportunity. Where you see divisions, I see distinctions.
Furthermore, your radical egalitarianism is a little too radical for me:
Their goal is this: to make "gay", or "black", or "woman" as insignificant as green eyes or the ability to roll one's tongue.
Maybe that's
your goal, but it's not mine.
Apart from the overwhelming likelihood that
they never will be you might want to consider for a moment that perhaps
they don't want to be?
Humans have the great ability to build communities. They have the even greater ability to work with and join together with other communities. Best of all, they can embrace the seemingly contradictory ideas of unity and diversity at the same time.
It's not a perfect world. It never will be. But we are more than individuals, more than communities, more than one definition. Why settle for less?