[quote name='UncleBob']So, on one hand, you're arguing that experiences vary. On the other hand, you're arguing that we should all conform to the social norms, individual experiences be damned.[/QUOTE]
I'm arguing that norms exist. Take wearing pants. People wear them. It would be quite odd if that norm disappeared tomorrow, wouldn't it?
That's not to say people all wear the same style, color, and cut of pants. And, amazingly, some wear jeans. Others wear skirts. Others still wear kilts. A few may opt out altogether and go live on a nudist colony.
Norms are expectations, but that doesn't mean they are unbreakable. Aspie.
EDIT: As it turned out, historically, the most common stiffs as a delivery driver were the HUGE orders. Primarily b/c they would order well in advance (even they knew if would be a dick move to put an order in for 50-70 pies at 11:30AM for a delivery 30-40 minutes later, how about those norms?), and they would have an account set up with the office, they would be billed later for their order. So some wage schmo would meet us at the gate and show us to where they needed to go, and then send us on our way, none the wiser. Since pizza delivery is a combination of the fine arts of negotiation and bullshittery (e.g., you see the Smiths placed an order - they're regulars, you've been there before, and you know they're a good tip - but your current run of tickets are not really in the same area as the Smiths, so how can you bullshit the other drivers into letting you take the Smith's order?), management had to get 2-3 dudes to take the big orders - one out of necessity (would you believe that Chevy Shitmobiles don't hold 50 pies?) and two, out of the need to share the misery (you taking the big order not only means a big stiff, but also missing out on the other orders drivers are taking, and collecting tips in the process).