[quote name='jaykrue']It's difficult when your mom makes arrangements for you at the last moment without your consent. Involving an innocent party also complicates things. At that point, I didn't know who this person was and I kept my mind open and hopeful. The fact that it ended badly doesn't change the fact that she was an innocent bystander. I don't think it shows a fundamental lack of respect for me. While a touch underhanded, her reasoning for the arrangements was out of her wish to see me with a traditional type family: me, the breadwinner, the wife at home with our 2.5 children. She's old skool and has that mindset. Whatever she did, she did it because, ultimately, she loves her son and only wishes the best for him (although her standards for what qualifies as 'the best' definitely need work).:lol:[/QUOTE]
Just ice down your groin someday. When she asks why, tell her you got a vasectomy. Do it for me, Jmcc.