[quote name='Alucard']Just making compliments to make friends no harm intended. I would never try to take someone's girlfriend. Especially such a cool guy as Kayden. My motives are just to add people to my buddy list no more than that.[/QUOTE]
You seem to keep flip-flopping back and forth, willing to amend what you actually believe on a whim to try to make people happy with you.
That's either kind of sad, that you have such a low self image that you feel you need to recreate yourself to make people like you, or that your just trying to tell people what you think they want to hear.
Lacking the confidence of your convictions could be understandable, especially if you are unsure of yourself. If that's the case, you really need to step back and take a long hard look at yourself and think of exactly what you like about yourself and build from there. If you lack the strenght of will and self to do it by yourself, you may want to look into seeing a pychologist, priest, etc.
Just telling people what you think they want to hear is unsettling as well.
Coming off as a shell of a person will always have people be uneasy about being around you, as they can sense that you seem to have ulterior motives... and people don't like being dragged around, feeling ill at ease around someone because they just seem "off".