Do all the decent girls always have bfs?

[quote name='msp32']jaykrue, its different in Chicago and New York, I have been all over and in larger cities its hard to spit without hitting a hot chick. In the midwest in smaller cities it is much more difficult. PLus they do get hitched way quicker there thatn in metro areas.[/QUOTE]

While true, it's easier in the metro areas, that shouldn't restrict you in actively finding a cutie. I drive down I-57 down to the Kankakee area (a lot of corn country) and I've even met a few girls at the rest stops and gas stations. Seriously, I can find'em anywhere.
 
[quote name='shrike4242']I wasn't being specific to St. Louis in my comment. Plenty of places outside of St. Louis that fit your criteria and disagree with the end outcome.[/QUOTE]


Perhaps you are right, But in my experience it is way way easier in the bigger cities. Maybe I just dont like hick chicks.
 
[quote name='Lina']That would be cute. :)

Just don't be like the "posters I can't mention", and I'd at least talk with posters here for a while.[/QUOTE]

I guess I have that double-covered then. :notworth::notworth:
 
[quote name='msp32']Perhaps you are right, But in my experience it is way way easier in the bigger cities. Maybe I just dont like hick chicks.[/QUOTE]

Then it's time to move to Metropolis if you've got more refined tastes.
 
Finish her Shrike she's on the ropes! Shoot her a sexy yet friendly email or you can do what I did for my GF can't send her flowers so I bought some and took pictures of them for her. She loved it, but then again I'm a freaking genius soooo.

r1s3n
 
[quote name='Collectordragon']LOL. There have been older women who were interested in me but they were scary as hell. I remember one was 34 when I was like 20 and she had a 15 year old son and told me that she wasn't looking for a father for her son just an older brother.[/QUOTE]

Dude, thats mad hot.....

The first time I've ever had sex with an older women is a great story:

I was dating this one flute player girl in high school and her family is pretty freaking wierd....but I dated her for a while.

I used to come over all the time, and we'd watch her little sisters and when her mom got home we would "Talk" in my GF's room.

Well, we had sex a few times and my GF told me once that her mom said she knew...and that one day she was just gonna jump in on us.

So I was a little freaked about that, but I was a stoner, football player and I just didnt give a real fuck so we kept doing it.

Well, this one time during sex I feel something rubbing my left shin/calf area....Now she's on top (GF) riding me and I just figured it was one of her dogs (She had two big dogs) rubbing up against me so I keep chugging along.

Then the rubbing moves up my thigh, and I'm like "Hold up, whats going on?" and I look up and its her mother.

Well, my GF at the time says "Hi Mommy!" and I'm like "Whats going on?" -

My GF says "I told you she was gonna jump in on us one day..."


Well, I freaked out....got up and was like "This is fucking wierd..."

And her mom said "Were all adults here, calm down"

So I grabbed my clothes and left the room, but left my shoes in the room by accident...

So I went back in, and said...."are you two serious?"

And my GF just looked at her mom and her mom said "No need to be afraid" and smiled...

So I sat in the chair, took my clothes off again and said "fuck it" and I had my first older woman and my first threesome.
 
[quote name='jaykrue']Then it's time to move to Metropolis if you've got more refined tastes.[/QUOTE]

Way ahead of ya

I actually like living in smaller cities, the space and nature and what not, but i gots to move to where the women are, and the money
 
[quote name='Lina']... I'm quite an easy person to please.....[/QUOTE]

Oh really.... ;)

Sorry, its just made me laugh a little when I thought of it out of context. :D
 
[quote name='Lina']Ugh, Ashton.

People like him are the reason I never watch TV or movies anymore.[/QUOTE]

:lol:

People like HHH is why I am starting to feel that way, lol.
 
[quote name='greendj27']Oh really.... ;)

Sorry, its just made me laugh a little when I thought of it out of context. :D[/QUOTE]

I knew someone else was going to make that leap in the conversation. :lol:
 
[quote name='r1s3n']Finish her Shrike she's on the ropes! Shoot her a sexy yet friendly email or you can do what I did for my GF can't send her flowers so I bought some and took pictures of them for her. She loved it, but then again I'm a freaking genius soooo.

r1s3n[/QUOTE]

Finish her, she's on the ropes? What, a piledriver from the top rope? :rofl:

Yeah, you sound like quite the genius. :roll: Is there something wrong with sending her flowers?
 
[quote name='msp32']Wow, impressive, I am in need of a good rest stop line.[/QUOTE]

That's the thing though. I've never used a line or a story. I'm very straightforward (which I admit will turn off some girls). I just say, "Hi, you seem like an interesting person. My name's ***, what's yours?"
 
[quote name='shrike4242']Finish her, she's on the ropes? What, a piledriver from the top rope? :rofl:

Yeah, you sound like quite the genius. :roll: Is there something wrong with sending her flowers?[/QUOTE]


I perfer the boston crabs....
 
[quote name='jaykrue']That's the thing though. I've never used a line or a story. I'm very straightforward (which I admit will turn off some girls). I just say, "Hi, you seem like an interesting person. My name's ***, what's yours?"[/QUOTE]

I figured as much. Nothing wrong with simple conversation. Works for me, I'm sure it would work for others.
 
[quote name='shrike4242']Finish her, she's on the ropes? What, a piledriver from the top rope? :rofl:

Yeah, you sound like quite the genius. :roll: Is there something wrong with sending her flowers?[/QUOTE]


Was talking bout Lina, foo! But seriously you should.

As for my GF yes, her parents don't know she's going out with someone so they'd flip out if I sent her flowers. So I got creative so sue me :)

r1s3n
 
[quote name='jaykrue']That's the thing though. I've never used a line or a story. I'm very straightforward (which I admit will turn off some girls). I just say, "Hi, you seem like an interesting person. My name's ***, what's yours?"[/QUOTE]


Thats a line. When i say line I don't mean " are those astronaut pants?", I mean anything that breaks the ice and initiates convo.
 
[quote name='jaykrue']That's the thing though. I've never used a line or a story. I'm very straightforward (which I admit will turn off some girls). I just say, "Hi, you seem like an interesting person. My name's ***, what's yours?"[/QUOTE]



shit, I just say "Yo girl, wats yo digits!" - she'll usually look away...so I pull out the Tek 9 and as again real slow like.....
 
[quote name='shrike4242']Job at LutherCorp perhaps?[/QUOTE]

Nah, he should talk to my friend Lois. She and I used to date but her dad was a bit over the top so I had to cut her loose. Last I heard she married some guy named Clark. I hear he's a real prude. Meh. Go figure.
 
[quote name='r1s3n']Was talking bout Lina, foo! But seriously you should.

As for my GF yes, her parents don't know she's going out with someone so they'd flip out if I sent her flowers. So I got creative so sue me :)

r1s3n[/QUOTE]

I knew who you meant. :razz:

And that would explain why you couldn't send her flowers. Or maybe not.

Why the heck can't you send her flowers? She a nun or something else strange? Her parents eat flowers or something like that?
 
[quote name='Mookyjooky']shit, I just say "Yo girl, wats yo digits!" - she'll usually look away...so I pull out the Tek 9 and as again real slow like.....[/QUOTE]

Sounds like you like them gangsta biatchez
 
I appreciate the advice but most of the advice doesn't really apply to me. See I'm a strict vegetarian and it takes a very long time to find like-minded girls and on top of that be attracted to them or have anything in common etc. Plus I'm a prude, and don't drink, or do drugs. I have very little in common with most people. So, it's always annoying when I finally meet a girl like myself and she always turns out to have a bf.
 
You obviously didn't know what I meant. He took her rackets from the Ballsy Terry group home and then added new strings.
 
[quote name='Collectordragon']I appreciate the advice but most of the advice doesn't really apply to me. See I'm a strict vegetarian and it takes a very long time to find like-minded girls and on top of that be attracted to them or have anything in common etc. Plus I'm a prude, and don't drink, or do drugs. I have very little in common with most people. So, it's always annoying when I finally meet a girl like myself and she always turns out to have a bf.[/QUOTE]

You should try eHarmony
 
[quote name='Collectordragon']I appreciate the advice but most of the advice doesn't really apply to me. See I'm a strict vegetarian and it takes a very long time to find like-minded girls and on top of that be attracted to them or have anything in common etc. Plus I'm a prude, and don't drink, or do drugs. I have very little in common with most people. So, it's always annoying when I finally meet a girl like myself and she always turns out to have a bf.[/QUOTE]

Well, that puts a new spin on the situation. Nice to have that additional information.
 
[quote name='Collectordragon']I appreciate the advice but most of the advice doesn't really apply to me. See I'm a strict vegetarian and it takes a very long time to find like-minded girls and on top of that be attracted to them or have anything in common etc. Plus I'm a prude, and don't drink, or do drugs. I have very little in common with most people. So, it's always annoying when I finally meet a girl like myself and she always turns out to have a bf.[/QUOTE]


Why didn't you say so. You are screwed. Sorry man, no offense. Sheesh! Not only are you missing out on the pleasures of women, but also meat and alcohol. Dang. Get busy living or get busy dying.
 
[quote name='msp32']Why didn't you say so. You are screwed. Sorry man, no offense. Sheesh! Not only are you missing out on the pleasures of women, but also meat and alcohol. Dang. Get busy living or get busy dying.[/QUOTE]

Nice open-minded view. Sheesh. :roll:

If he chooses to be a vegetarian, doesn't do drugs or alcohol, and he's a prude, that's his choice. He's not screwed, he's a person with convictions. Deal with it.
 
[quote name='Collectordragon']You aren't the first to say that. I've thought about it.[/QUOTE]

Never hurts to try something different if what you've been working at hasn't been doing it.
 
[quote name='msp32']Why didn't you say so. You are screwed. Sorry man, no offense. Sheesh! Not only are you missing out on the pleasures of women, but also meat and alcohol. Dang. Get busy living or get busy dying.[/QUOTE]

I wouldn't have it any other way. I will never compromise my beliefs. I like living as healthy as possible. I just would like to have a like-minded girl to join me. I find girls that are perfect for me it's just that they always have bfs.
 
[quote name='shrike4242']Nice open-minded view. Sheesh. :roll:

If he chooses to be a vegetarian, doesn't do drugs or alcohol, and he's a prude, that's his choice. He's not screwed, he's a person with convictions. Deal with it.[/QUOTE]

Thanks. :)
 
[quote name='shrike4242']Nice open-minded view. Sheesh. :roll:

If he chooses to be a vegetarian, doesn't do drugs or alcohol, and he's a prude, that's his choice. He's not screwed, he's a person with convictions. Deal with it.[/QUOTE]

I did deal with it. Processed it. Then I commented on it truthfully. I was trying to convey that he is missing out on some fun things that most folks do. And if his style ain't working, I am not saying it's not, but if it is he might wanna try making some me time and partake in some simple pleasures. I think thats open minded, maybe in just too harsh a package.
 
[quote name='Collectordragon']I appreciate the advice but most of the advice doesn't really apply to me. See I'm a strict vegetarian and it takes a very long time to find like-minded girls and on top of that be attracted to them or have anything in common etc. Plus I'm a prude, and don't drink, or do drugs. I have very little in common with most people. So, it's always annoying when I finally meet a girl like myself and she always turns out to have a bf.[/QUOTE]

Man ALL those are still nothing but excuses. So what if you're a vegetarian? That shouldn't be a limiting factor. This should come up easily in the beginning of a conversation. Like I said, it shouldn't take more than 15 minutes of talking to know whether you want to find out more about the girl or move on to the next one. If you don't want to meet a girl who doesn't drink or do drugs go to places where they would be least likely to do so. You can meet girls at coffee houses, libraries, churches (and yes, I'm not so proud to admit I've picked up girls at churches), public swimming pools, the beach, the local YMCA, gyms, school meetings (I had to cover for my sick cousin who had a parent teacher conference and ended up w/ a date w/ my nephew's english teacher), bookstores, clothing stores, etc. All those places I just mentioned have no alcoholic drinks or illicit drugs that can be appropriately be used. So now you have no excuse.
 
[quote name='msp32']I did deal with it. Processed it. Then I commented on it truthfully. I was trying to convey that he is missing out on some fun things that most folks do. And if his style ain't working, I am not saying it's not, but if it is he might wanna try making some me time and partake in some simple pleasures. I think thats open minded, maybe in just too harsh a package.[/QUOTE]

Commented on it and smacked his beliefs down as wrong, from your opinion. Those are his beliefs, if they're different than yours and you think that he's missing out on something, that's your opinion, not a fact.

Truthfully or not, he's not in the wrong, nor are you. Just differing opinions.
 
No they don't, although I've noticed that many of the "decent" women are very good at keeping long term relationships, thereby making themselves unavailable for longer periods of time. Although if you can't find any then I'd say your standards for decent are a bit to high.
 
[quote name='Collectordragon']I haven't posted too much on CAG and certainly not to talk about personal stuff before but I thought I would today to vent.

I have a question for fellow CAGers. Do all the decent girls have bfs? There are very and I mean very few girls I'm interested in and every single one of them seems to have a bf. Wtf is up with that?! Are the decent girls never single or something? Am I the only one in this situation?[/QUOTE]

You aren't looking hard enough. There are, oh, I'd say about a bajillion girls out there and you can be certain that at least 1/2 of them are f*ckable and 1/2 of those are not psycho (because, let's get real, a lot of girls are) and out of those remaining about 1/2 of them do not have boyfriends. 1/2 of a 1/2 of a 1/2 of a bajillion is still a ton of chicks. Look harder.
 
[quote name='jaykrue']Man ALL those are still nothing but excuses. So what if you're a vegetarian? That shouldn't be a limiting factor. This should come up easily in the beginning of a conversation. Like I said, it shouldn't take more than 15 minutes of talking to know whether you want to find out more about the girl or move on to the next one. If you don't want to meet a girl who doesn't drink or do drugs go to places where they would be least likely to do so. You can meet girls at coffee houses, libraries, churches (and yes, I'm not so proud to admit I've picked up girls at churches), public swimming pools, the beach, the local YMCA, gyms, school meetings (I had to cover for my sick cousin who had a parent teacher conference and ended up w/ a date w/ my nephew's english teacher), bookstores, clothing stores, etc. All those places I just mentioned have no alcoholic drinks or illicit drugs that can be appropriately be used. So now you have no excuse.[/QUOTE]

I just don't see it working with a non-vegetarian girl though. When you're an ethical vegetarian it's a big part of your life and being with a girl who doesn't share your beliefs it's a conflict of interests. It's like a cannibal dating a humanitarian. lol
 
[quote name='shrike4242']Commented on it and smacked his beliefs down as wrong, from your opinion. Those are his beliefs, if they're different than yours and you think that he's missing out on something, that's your opinion, not a fact.

Truthfully or not, he's not in the wrong, nor are you. Just differing opinions.[/QUOTE]

I never said he was wrong, just screwed, from my point of view. He is probably right in fact, it is better for you, my sister is a vegitarian, but he is also missing some of advantages and pleasure of being wrong which was my point. If nobody tells , hows he gonna know. I figured that it was assumed that it was my opinion and taken with a grian of salt. Sooo uh.. yeah.. well done.
 
[quote name='Collectordragon']I just don't see it working with a non-vegetarian girl though. When you're an ethical vegetarian it's a big part of your life and being with a girl who doesn't share your beliefs it's a conflict of interests. It's like a cannibal dating a humanitarian. lol[/QUOTE]

If you look at my post again, I wasn't negating your vegetarianism. All I said was to find out, in the span of 15 minutes of polite genteel conversation, about her stance on eating meat. It will save you time in looking for that vegetarian girl you're looking for. If anything, the fact you're a vegetarian should work in your favor. She might think it's endearing and even if she is a meat eater, wouldn't you get some sort of personal satisfaction, if somewhere down the line, if you decide to date her, you convince her to become a vegetarian too?

You currently STILL have no valid excuse.
 
[quote name='jaykrue']If you look at my post again, I wasn't negating your vegetarianism. All I said was to find out, in the span of 15 minutes of polite genteel conversation, about her stance on eating meat. It will save you time in looking for that vegetarian girl you're looking for. If anything, the fact you're a vegetarian should work in your favor. She might think it's endearing and even if she is a meat eater, wouldn't you get some sort of personal satisfaction, if somewhere down the line, if you decide to date her, you convince her to become a vegetarian too?

You currently STILL have no valid excuse.[/QUOTE]

That is a possible option. I know that it's worked out that way for some people. It's still nice though to have someone who is like-minded in the first place and that you don't need to change. I'm keeping my options open though.
 
[quote name='Collectordragon']And I'm guessing she's taken... lol[/QUOTE]

Yes, shes 32 and married to a non-vegitarian. So that should not stop you. But she drinks and will have some bacon or fish occasionally. most people don't like a stick in the mud who is worrying about convictions all the time. That is what i am saying. Broaden your horizens, and somebody you like is going to be BFless. But she may eat meat and drink wine, why let that shit stop you. Its downright silly.
 
[quote name='msp32']Yes, shes 32 and married to a non-vegitarian. So that should not stop you. But she drinks and will have some bacon or fish occasionally. most people don't like a stick in the mud who is worrying about convictions all the time. That is what i am saying. Broaden your horizens, and somebody you like is going to be BFless. But she may eat meat and drink wine, why let that shit stop you. Its downright silly.[/QUOTE]

It's not silly. It's a lifestyle choice and I respect that. It takes a lot of will and conviction to stand up for his beliefs and is to be admired and respected.
 
[quote name='shrike4242']Finish her, she's on the ropes? What, a piledriver from the top rope? :rofl:

Yeah, you sound like quite the genius. :roll: Is there something wrong with sending her flowers?[/QUOTE]

I've had dreams of Kurt Angle putting me in the Ankle Lock, while gloating that I made him tap.

I guess that means I'm psycho. Oh well.
 
[quote name='Collectordragon']That is a possible option. I know that it's worked out that way for some people. It's still nice though to have someone who is like-minded in the first place and that you don't need to change. I'm keeping my options open though.[/QUOTE]

Good to here. At least I got you to consider it. I was worried that you would never take that option into consideration.
 
[quote name='jaykrue']It's not silly. It's a lifestyle choice and I respect that. It takes a lot of will and conviction to stand up for his beliefs and is to be admired and respected.[/QUOTE]


To me being alone and deeming people unfit for companionship because they drink or eat meat is silly and uptight, not admirable.
 
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