[quote name='SerenityKry']Alright, treading territory that no one else has yet... although someone has referenced. Haha...
How? What is this super dee dooper special way, vague explanation would be appreciated. I'm just a bit floored that you are able to blow a load in under mere seconds.
Obviously you masturbate quite so often becuase you and your girl are having issues in the sexual department. Does she even know you do it that much? Seeing as how you don't go about wacking off when she is home from work shows me you're trying to hide it.
You two probably need to talk out your whole sex drive and possibly uping sex time a bit so you might not do it so often.
Probably no MAJOR side effects with obsessive masturbation but obviously too much of something can never be good in the long run.
And you might want to get over the threesome thing, girls sometimes say that just to lure you in, they won't actually go through with it most of the time. If you have to have it THAT bad, time to find a new girly.
Also, to prove a point. Not all girls hardly hand it out. I'd KILL to get it every day but at the moment my fiance and I average 3-4 times a week, which is just fine with me.
No, sex doesn't end after marriage, I have no friggun clue where that myth came from, if you're not having sex after you are married you might want to look into a divorce.
And on the whole potency issue... You're just sucking your sack dry is all I can think of. Which is once again, beyond me because I remember reading that guys produce that stuff pretty friggun quickly.
SO! Cut back, too much anything is a bad thing even if it's not obvious.[/QUOTE]
1. I wanked it before I met her and even when we first met and sex was great I wanked it frequently. Its not because of the issues. And sex is pretty frequent right now besides. We still have issues because there is no passion on her end(its just going through the motions to keep me happy)but sex is frequent.
2. The method...hmmm how to explain is difficult but then how to explain in a board friendly way more so. Ok gonna try this, mods appreciate that I dont have a history for lewd comments and im trying to keep it somewhat board friendly. Most people wrap their palm around the base and close their fingers as if making a fist then use some kind of lubricant(or do it dry which makes your wang hurt pretty fast). The way I do it is to take m right hand and put my thumb on top of the head and part way on the base upper side. My pointer and index fingers go on the underside of the head and again slightway on the base. Instead of doing this motion on the side pulling the skin really roughly I do it with my fingers pointing towards my groin. So the pulling motion is similar just the skin is tugged slightly differently and it doesnt hurt as much.
Dont know if this makes you understand it. Probally not and it deffitly took me quite awhile to ajust to doing it that way. Only reason I learned it in the first place was because I was fooling around with my girl one night and came across it.
3. Im mostly past the threesome thing. I never bring it up on my own anymore. But if she brings it up or the subject comes up in conversation it still is a sore spot. I mean I live my life compltly honestly, I really tend not to lie about stuff. Someone asked if my fiancee knows how much I masterbate and ya she does, she has known since like our 4th date because I really am just that honest with people about stuff. So that im so honest when people lie to me it really pisses me off. Sex is as I said an issue and part of it is because she lied about that and a few other things(saying she LOVES to have oral sex for example!). So again, getting better at moving on but its a double sore spot since sex is so important to me and because she lied.
4. God I hate you......seriously 3/4 times a week isnt enough for you.........Grah.........I hope our relationship gets to where she wants it that often forget about it not being enough.