Ugh what is with some eBay sellers?
I scored a large coffee table sized book in one auction for $9.99 total shipped via USPS Media Mail and three smaller books in a second auction for $5.50 total shipped via UPS Ground.
First auction I paid back on January 30. The seller never updates the order to say it shipped, and there apparently is no tracking number. The day before eBay's delivery estimate is up he asks me if I received the book yet. I tell him No. I hear nothing further from him. Today I send a message asking what day he shipped it because if he

ed up on the shipping date by shipping it very late, it may still actually be in the mail and arrive relatively soon. I also asked if he had a tracking number.
My guess is the guy isn't making shit off the book. After fees and shipping, he's only getting $3.50 and the book retails new for like $40 or $50 and it was like $35 at Costco recently. So unless he got the book for free he's basically taking a huge loss on the item.
I get this response as I'm writing this post:
"I don't remember the exact date...I wanted to find a box big enough to avoid the damage to the last book I sent....if you want I will send you a refund and you can resend it arrives..."
#1, He can't even give me a ballpark estimate? And obviously he has no tracking number. #2 So him finding a big enough box is some kind of delay... and that's my problem how? #3 If I get a refund, he honestly expects me to pay to send it back to him when it arrives and flush at least $5 of my own down the toilet?
Second order was three small books that retail for about $4 each on Amazon. So getting them all for $5.50 was a deal. I paid on Feb 4. The seller marked the order as shipped on Feb 6, but provided no tracking info. Additionally I have no idea why the seller chose UPS Ground for shipping because that has to have been more expensive than USPS Media Mail. My guess was it was upwards of $10 unless this person was using (abusing) some kind of business to ship personal items. So this seller is taking a big fat loss on this deal if he actually shipped it via UPS Ground and didn't pull a fast one to USPS Media Mail.
I mean, what the hell? Why don't people ship stuff with Delivery Confirmation so we can track the orders and have some kind of idea what is going on. I think it costs $1.19 via PayPal for USPS shipments.
When I sell stuff, I work that cost of shipping w/delivery confirmation into whatever I charge so it doesn't affect my bottom line for the lowest amount I'm comfortable getting for the item. Even cartridge only DS game shipments on Goozex! I don't understand why this is so hard for other people to do too.
Other than my own ethics, what's to stop me from filing disputes with both these sellers because I haven't received my items yet? eBay/PayPal is undoubtedly going to side with me because the first seller never even marked it as shipped or included a tracking number. The second seller only marked it as shipped with no tracking number. I assume if you don't register the tracking number with the order on eBay, it's not going to do you any good in a dispute. Because if either one of these people magically has a tracking number, I can just claim they mailed something else to my ZIP code and I definitely didn't get that package. Why, as a seller, would you leave yourself open to problems like this? Just pay the damn costs to get protection via tracking on PayPal, its cheaper than other shipping options anyway.
I'm half tempted to just open disputes against at least the first seller even if the book arrives, just because I don't like his attitude toward the situation. I don't think 18 days after payment is an unreasonable time to expect my book to have arrived, even if by Media Mail. Plus he obviously ships the item late, uses no tracking, can't even be bothered to mark the order as shipped, and then he expects me to ship it back to him on my own honesty if it does arrive after getting a refund? Yeah........ right.
I'll probably give it a few more business days for both items and open disputes against both sellers if the items truly don't arrive. (Also depending on what seller #2 messages me back with).
I'd at least expect to hear some sob stories about why things weren't shipped timely that seem to be popular here on CAG. At least that gives the excuse a human element.