hay cheapy and wombat, this is a questiin for cheapy:
as a fellow american born gaijin and one of the few minorities brave enough to date outside of their own race, have you any general tips on dating japanese women!? i am currently dating one over here in the states who has come here as an exchange student, and im real confused.i have done some research and i found that japanese dating rituals are prettymuch the exact opposite of american ones.
Is there any advice you would like to give that you wish you knew going into your relationship with Mrs. Cheapy?
What i already know:
i DO have approval of the parents as far as i can see (being black and knowing how to speak japanese has its perks), but the girl herself is extremely shy. in private, like on dates, it's kool like any other relationship i've been in, but in public, especially around friends it's a different story.
i know of the japanese social taboo of PDA(Public Display(s) of Affection). however im wondering is there something else i'm missing?
i have dated a few times before, but this is real different than anything i have experienced before. Is there any surefire way to note when you are making progress? japanese dating seems to be very unspoken, unlike american.
don't let my signature fool you, i know how to keep my japanophile side in check. i just REALLY need your help. i feel as though i'm starting over here!